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lostndunnowat2do  

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Hi. My name is Ashley and I am from Northeastern PA and I am a single mother of 2 even though the father of both my kids is being so kind and letting the kids and I stay at his house until I get on my feet but the only thing is right now, before we broke up, we had the electric bill in both of our names and we had recieved a shut off notice 10 days ago. The electric was suppose to be getting shut off today (6/7/10) but thank god it has not happened yet. We owe UGI $1536.00 and have no money to pay them at all. Both my children are under the age of 2. My daughter will be 2 in July and my son is 8 months old. My ex-fiance doesnt even make $1000.00 a month due to him being on unemployment from him getting fired due to me having our son by c-section and then our son getting sick 2 1/2 wks after being born and eneed up in the hospital for a wk after that but anyhow, he was fired because he took time off of work to be there with our son until we knew what was going on with him so he has been on unemployment since Nov of 09 but now is no longer. I am a stay at home mom, we both agreed on that when we were together and so now I am stuck until I find a job. We both have been looking for jobs but have had no luck. 

By the time we pay our rent, get diapers, wipes house hold needed items, there isnt much left to pay the bills. You cant work much with not even $1000.00 a month. We need help. We have tried CEO, PUP, local churches, Red Cross and so many other places and everyone just laughs in our faces. I have no where else to go with out very young children if our power gets turned off tomorrow since it didnt today. 

If you can please help me out in anyway, please get back to me on here. I am in very much needed help!

Thank you to all who are willing to help!

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jenred  

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imintrouble  

About imintrouble

i am a single mother of a 5 year old and i take care of my grandmothers son who is disabled.

i really feel bad for everyone that is in the same position i am in.  I have no money and have bills due that i cant pay. was hoping not to get behind on my house payment, but things dont look very good.   mortgage payment went up on me and have to come up with about 3200.00 before the 15th of this month... to pay bills and of course there is the month of christmas. but hoping to have job by then dont care what it is long as i am working.   would really love to have someone send be about 5000.00 but know that is not probably going to happen. and trust me i have searched on the internet and have no rich relatives or even any that are poor.

i really wish everyone the best of luck.  If i could have helped anyone i would have. I hate posting this about myself, just thought i would get this off my chest

I really dont think people send other people money to help them, which i can understand. Im sure everyone works just as hard for there money. but would be nice if someone had some money they didnt know what to do with, if they want extra bills i can send them mine

 

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katimenter  

rent

I am a single mom with two kids. Recently I became very ill and ended up losing my job. I have been able to find a new job but it i will not get paid soon enough to pay rent and not working for 3 weeks has set us behind. I need help to get through the next month and don't know what to do. My rent is $495 electric is about $35  my phone is $55 I also have a $35 credit card payment and a $50 storage payment. Oh, and the tabs on my car expire at the end of the month without the car i can not get to work or get my kids to school. All of these things combined with  needing gas and food and i need to come up with about $850 in like 3 days. I have run out of options and ideas. Please help.
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TINA1  

I NEED MONEY TO PAY BILLS AND RENT

I NEED MONEY TO PAY MY BILLS AND RENT THAT IS 2 MONTHS BEHIND I HAVE 3 KIDS AND I DONT WORK BECAUSE EVERY DOLLAR I WOULD MAKE WOULD GO TO BABY SITTER.I TRY ALL THESE FREE GRANTS AND THEY ACT LIKE I CAN JUST PULL MONEY OUT MY BUTT FOR A BOOK OR CD TO GET ME A GRANT.I HAVE 3 KIDS 1 GOES TO SCHOOL SO I HAVE TO PAY FOR ALL THAT THEN I HAVE 2 IN DIAPERS SO EVERY PENNY IGET GOES TORDS THAT.SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jessica and Mike  

Jessica needs help!

Hi, My name is Jessica. My husband Mike and I just moved to missouri from Arizona because we could not afford to live there anymore and we thought we might have more opportunities for jobs here. We were wrong. We have had nothing but troubles since we have moved here. Let me begin, we moved into a rental property that we cannot afford, the management company told us that it was the only house in the entire springfield metro area (including cities up to 25 miles out) that would allow our older rottweiler who has medical problems. We made the sacrifice to take care of him and chanced not being able to afford the rent, which is a blazing $800 a month. We also did't have air conditioning for 3 weeks out of our first month, the rental company didn't want to fix it, until we threatened them with the Health Department. We expected to find jobs pretty soon. It took me seven weeks to get hired on at Wal-Mart making $7.00 an hour, and I have to beg them to give me full time hours, which they did. So I generally get (if I am lucky) between 34-37 hours a week. I work very hard, any hours available and volunteer to be called in if they need me to replace someone elses shift. Mike on the other hand, has not been able to find a job. He has applied everywhere possible (at least 4 applications a day to different places, some online, some face-to-face) It has now been 3 months and nothing. Well, one week he was not able to turn in applications, or go to intweviews, because one saturday night, we was attacked. Two large, drunk men, who we didn't even know attacked him and brutally assaulted him. The police came and a report was made, but the men were never found. This happened in a parking lot not but 5 minutes from our house. We had to go to the emergency room because he was seriously injured. They had managed to beat his head into the concrete pretty bad. He had fractures in his face, and whip-lash, and a pretty bad neck injury. He had a black eye and nerve damage to his face and neck. We had to go back to the emergency room about 4 days later because he didn't feel quite right, and the doctors told us that he had post concussion syndrome. His eyes had been dilating in and out quickly, and his blood pressure wasn't right, and his heart was beating strange. The total bill for the hospital, came to about $4000. We contacted Victims of Violent Crime Compensation of Missouri to see if they could help pay for some of the bills. They denied him, because they didn't catch the men? Not sure why. On top of that bill, he has to see a family practice doctor once a month for medications that run us about $400 each fill. She recommends either continuing the medication for a long time, or getting a surgery that has about a 33% success rate and costs between $80,000 and $100,000 to do. We have been delinquent on our bills several times, and have resulted to food stamp benefits, which we think should go for people that need it worse than us, like families with children, but we wouldn't eat if it wasnt for that help. We get less than $100 a month. We basically have lived on tuna sandwhiches and eggs. Once a week I try to fit in some ground beef and rice. We are falling harder and harder, and I feel like my body is about to give out. More than that, I am scared. We have no support system. No money, If anyone thinks that they can help us out with money to pay our bills, or to buy some food, or to help with the prescrpitions that would be great. Or, If you have a job availible in the Springfield, Mo metro area that would be good for Mike, let us know. He had an assosciated degree in computer related field and some experience with computer repair, installation, and such. But he doesnt have to do that. Keep in mind that his injury limits him physicially (meaning he cant lift 50 lbs continuously) though he is pretty strong. Thank you.

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